Anatomy of a TV Classic

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Friendship has become the cornerstone and central aspect of every relationship in today’s society. Friends are no longer only defined as those with whom we grew up, or as non-familial intimate associates. Amicable aspects of human relating have expanded into, among other areas, the workplace (between co-workers, and employer/employee relations), and in the home.

In the increasingly complicated category of the central kindred unit, however, the traditional family has extended beyond the husband-wife-parents-children-siblings category with parent-like types (mom’s boyfriend, dad’s girlfriend), ex-spouses, step-siblings, adopted children, gay and lesbian companions, and people forced to co-habitat for no other reason but economics.

No other television show so clearly and humorously addresses the enlarged family significance of the new friendship, then the supersized Friends television show, which originally aired on NBC from 1994 to 2004.

With yet another new multi-million-dollar streaming syndication deal recently bartered, the show will continue to be seen for seemingly all time.

In April, WarnerMedia shelled-out $425 million to stream the series on HBO Max. Before that, the show had amassed a loyal following on Netflix, which had extended its licensing agreement for the show until 2020 with a rare 12-month contract said to have been worth $80 million.

Divided They Never Fall

The program’s executive producers, David Crane and Marta Kaufman, once confirmed that the show’s storylines would always be parceled out in six equal portions. And they held true to that ideal by presenting witty dialogue, a frenetic, yet controlled pace and, quite simply, brilliant performances by their cast.

The series originally revolved around a close-knit sextet of twentysomething New York singles who overdose on conversation and coffee at the Central Perk gathering hole. As originally introduced, the characters and the actors who portrayed them are:

  • Courtney Cox as Monica Geller, a neat-freak assistant chef.
  • David Schwimmer as Ross Geller, Monica’s on-the-rebound older brother.
  • Lisa Kudrow as Phoebe Buffay, the flighty, college chum.
  • Jennifer Aniston as Rachel Green, Monica’s rich-girl roomie.
  • Matt LeBlanc as Joey Tribbiani, an actor.
  • Matthew Perry as Chandler Bing, an acerbic office worker.

The characters have evolved over the years and, in the process, have showcased just how challenging (and humorous) it can be to sustain relationships. In the beginning, all were unattached, romantically, though Schwimmer’s Ross retained a massive crush on Aniston’s semi-oblivious Rachel from their days in elementary school. Rachel (who left her groom at the altar), and Ross eventually hook-up, then separate, get married, divorced, and then have a child (and only true fans can understand the dynamics of those developments).

Monica and Chandler eventually fall in love and marry, while Joey and Phoebe remain romantically unattached to each other — while spending a ton of time with significant-others.

The gang’s relationships with parents, co-workers, each other and themselves continue to present various challenges, as this intensely cheery group of people carry on a mutual, moderate admiration (which is ultimately more tangible).

A closer look at the characters and the actors who portray them may hold additional friendly insight.

Courtney Cox

Courtney Cox began her show business career as an audience member-pulled-on-stage-dancer for Bruce Springsteen’s mainstream breakthrough video/single, Dancing in the Dark. She auditioned for the gig as a fluke, after accompanying an actress friend of hers who sought the very part Cox won.

Reportedly, Friends co-stars David Schwimmer, Matthew Perry, and Lisa Kudrow were once concerned that Cox, the biggest name of the group when the show premiered (she was last seen regularly as girlfriend to Michael J. Fox on TV’s Family Ties), might have had a star attitude.

“I thought she’d be a little aloof and celebrity-ish,” Kudrow once confessed about Cox in an interview. “And she wasn’t at all. She’s so great.”

On playing Monica, Cox herself once said, “She’s the most normal. She has her quirks. She’s compulsive, but she’s the voice of reason.”

David Schwimmer

The down-to-earth actor David Schwimmer has a similarly humble parallel to his TV self, Ross Geller.

Schwimmer, who was introduced to the mainstream TV audience by way of roles on The Wonder Years and NYPD Blue, once described his Friends role as “…the 90’s Guy, struggling with old fashioned values in a contemporary world.”

And while some Friends cast members were initially effusive about Cox, none turned green with envy for Schwimmer as a stand-out star. His character’s plight (Ross’ wife left him for a woman, then discovered she was caring his child) and the actor’s wistfully neurotic line readings have delivered many of the show’s biggest laughs.

“It’s always nice to have a vulnerable character — girls love that stuff — and that’s Ross,” said Cox.

“He’s got this quality I admire and hate at the same time,” Matthew Perry once revealed. “I admire it because nobody else has that hurt-guy style, and I hate it because every single woman on the face of the planet wants him.”

Early on, Schwimmer said he didn’t want the focus of Friends to shift to his (or any other) character. “That would be the downfall of the show,” he relayed. “All of us signed up to do an ensemble” (and to, ultimately, make millions of dollars a year in a all-or-nothing stick-together deal with NBC and Warner Bros.)

Lisa Kudrow

Lisa Kudrow, otherwise known as Phoebe, was introduced to TV audiences in shows like TV’s classic, groundbreaking family drama, Life Goes On — on which she made her TV debut as a ditzy waitress. Kudrow also appeared on Bob, Bob Newhart’s short-lived, too-many-cooks-in-the-kitchen sitcom of the early 1990s.

On Friends, she plays a similarly dippy character who manages to attract sane viewers who identify with her wacky life perceptions.

Once getting together with Friends, Kudrow pulled double duty in the show’s first season, in which she also portrayed Phoebe’s twin sister, Ursula (the air-headed waitress she occasionally played on NBC’s Mad About You). With Friends, Ursula originally began dating Matt LeBlanc’s Joey (and later, a teacher played by the Oscar-nominated Sean Penn), and the long-estranged twins reunite.

As to how Kudrow perceives her role as Friends’ main Buffay sister, Phoebe, the actress once declared to a reporter: “She’s not stupid. She just has a different point of reference for everything. She’s a little Nell-ish.”

Jennifer Aniston

Jennifer Aniston once described her Friends TV alter-ego, Rachel Green, as “…not bitchy,” but “spoiled.” “She knows no other life,” Aniston professed.

And there are similarities between the actress and the character, including the shared trait of self-deprecation and modesty, and how such characteristics often become magnetic in establishing a friendship. As Aniston recalled in an early interview, “I’m completely shocked that I’m on a show that’s actually going [a hit]. One of her credits included a summer 1994 sitcom for CBS, entitled, Muddling Through, which was a no-winner.

When it was pointed out to her that Friends may have the best-looking class in sitcom history, Aniston responded with, “I don’t think, Oh, I’m Miss Outstanding-Looking Person. The last thing we think about is our looks, even though people think we do because our wardrobe and hair are so great” (Aniston went on to create a sensation with her alter-ego’s rave hairstyle, which was ultimately referred to as the Rachel).

Matt LeBlanc

Matt LeBlanc once labeled his girl-crazy Joey Tribbiani character as “…honest…a result of his cloudy perception of the world.”

While David Schwimmer and Matthew Perry were equally effusive about the alleged arrogance of Courtney Cox, they also had some initial skepticism with which they perceived LeBlanc, a onetime Levi’s 501 jeans model.

Schwimmer once recalled meeting LeBlanc: “I thought, Oh, great, here’s this guy I’m going to work with for maybe five years, and he’s…Joe Cool stud. Well, he’s turned me around completely.”

Added Perry of LeBlanc: “He’s an unbelievably nice guy in the body of a tough, get-out-of-my-way guy.”

Matthew Perry

Matthew Perry once defined his screen presence as Chandler Bing in this way: “He’s the guy everybody thinks will do really well with women, but he thinks too much and says the wrong thing.”

While Chandler somehow managed to win Monica as his pride, Perry remains single, though clearly one of the most eligible bachelors in Hollywood. A wicked talent with spitfire line-elocution, Perry shares only a few traits with his most famous small screen other-self.

It’s been said that have a penchant for coffee with cream and two Equals.


Equality is what Friends is really all about — and viewers will continue to pal around with the show for years to come in syndicated reruns, feasting on the immutable essence and image of friendship, while enjoying a hearty, healthy and very happy dose of friendly humor.

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Herbie J Pilato writes about pop-culture, stays positive, and hosts THEN AGAIN WITH HERBIE J PILATO, a TV talk show on Amazon Prime and Amazon Prime UK.

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