How “The Phone Man” Repaired My Life and Career

With clear communication and the right connection

For the longest time, I thought my talents and abilities were solely defined by the “practical” skills that I attained through formal education or work experience.

But that all changed one day when — in serving as a primary caregiver for my Mom, I met “The Phone Man” who delivered a very important message.

At the time, circa 2004, I was frustrated with my life and career. I was 45-years-old and an accomplished author and TV producer, but I had nothing of what this world calls secure. I was caring for my Mom, after years of doing the same for my Dad, and it was rewarding to do so. But I felt lost and distant from where I thought I should be in life.

Most of my friends, colleagues, and extended family members were married with children, homes and financial stability. I had none of that.

And I felt stuck.

Until I met The Phone Man.

Moving

I had just moved from Los Angeles back to my hometown of Rochester, New York, to be there for my Mom. I had made that move before, back and forth between L.A. and Rochester, trying to balance both worlds.