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The Deception Of Arrogance — The Power Of Kindness and Humility

And How It All Fits In With Talent

Herbie J Pilato
4 min readJan 30, 2020
Photo by Mateus Campos Felipe on Unsplash

Years ago, I directed a musical for a local theatre community, spending weeks auditioning countless actors, singers, and dancers of all ages. A diverse group of talented performers gave their all during the process, and of course, I could only narrow it down to a chosen few who would win the various lead and supporting roles. But it soon became clear who would round out the cast.

I was impressed with the theatrical range of some but more impressed with the kindness of others. Some of those with the most talent, unfortunately, did not have the best personalities — nor the kindest of demeanor. Some of those with less talent — and in some cases, no talent at all, appeared to be less egotistical and potentially the easiest to work with.

So, I was faced with a dilemma:

1. Hire the most talented who were also the most egotistical and difficult personalities?

or

2. Cast the least talented who were also the gentlest of souls?

Ultimately, I went with a good mix of those individuals from each category. I cast the actors who were both talented and kind, while I also selected performers who may have lacked talent but who were good-natured…

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Herbie J Pilato
Herbie J Pilato

Written by Herbie J Pilato

Herbie J Pilato is a writer, producer, and TV personality whose books about life and pop culture include THE 12 BEST SECRETS OF CHRISTMAS.

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